Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 5.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) apologising sincerely (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 11.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 13.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) finding a middle way (d) listening without blame
- 14.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) help them calm down (c) ignore them (d) pick a winner fast
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 16.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 25.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
Answer key
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- True
- apologising sincerely
- step 3
- finding a middle way
- step 3
- brainstorm solutions
- to understand fully
- step 1
- shouting back
- help them calm down
- apologising sincerely
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 4
- calm down
- using a calm voice
- taking sides at once
- listening without blame
- step 2
- step 2
- False
- focusing on the problem
- with an agreed plan
- listen to both sides
- take a deep breath
- saying “I feel…”
- shouting back
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- spreading gossip
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- step 3
- find options
- hear each side fully
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