Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or list possible fixes? (a) hear each side fully (b) list possible fixes
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 6.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 9.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or hear each side fully? (a) take a deep breath (b) hear each side fully
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 13.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 20.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 25.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) spreading gossip
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 38.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
Answer key
- walking off in anger
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- step 4
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- find options
- False
- False
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- step 2
- makes it worse
- step 1
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- False
- list possible fixes
- spreading gossip
- listen to both sides
- let each person speak
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- brainstorm solutions
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- brainstorm solutions
- listening without blame
- cool off for a minute
- helps solve it
- True
- spreading gossip
- focusing on the problem
- listen to both sides
- find options
- True
- using a calm voice
- step 3
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