Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 6.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 20.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 21.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 36.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 38.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 39.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 4
- helps solve it
- finding a middle way
- listening without blame
- False
- to understand fully
- helps solve it
- step 1
- makes it worse
- True
- step 1
- shouting back
- take a deep breath
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- focusing on the problem
- list possible fixes
- False
- help them calm down
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- brainstorm solutions
- walking off in anger
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- step 3
- cool off for a minute
- step 3
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- finding a middle way
- find options
- False
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- True
- name-calling
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