Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or shake hands on a plan? (a) take a deep breath (b) shake hands on a plan
- 3.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 5.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 9.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 12.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 15.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 24.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 35.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 36.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
Answer key
- let each person speak
- take a deep breath
- False
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- step 4
- focusing on the problem
- step 3
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- step 2
- to understand fully
- shouting back
- using a calm voice
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- let each person speak
- step 4
- step 3
- True
- calm down
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- step 1
- finding a middle way
- list possible fixes
- calm down
- walking off in anger
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- False
- True
- brainstorm solutions
- listening without blame
- taking sides at once
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