Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 5.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 8.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 10.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 12.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 15.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 19.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) take a vote at once (c) ignore them (d) help them calm down
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 26.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) agree on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 38.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- makes it worse
- False
- True
- calm down
- step 2
- True
- step 4
- with an agreed plan
- name-calling
- combine the best parts
- find options
- spreading gossip
- True
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- listen to both sides
- help them calm down
- step 3
- name-calling
- walking off in anger
- list possible fixes
- step 2
- helps solve it
- True
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- shouting back
- bringing up old fights
- spreading gossip
- step 4
- take a deep breath
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- step 3
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
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