Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 2.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) name-calling (d) finding a middle way
- 5.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 9.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 12.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 18.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 20.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 30.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 31.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with a winner and loser (d) with an agreed plan
- 32.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) ignore them (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 40.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- hear each side fully
- to understand fully
- step 1
- finding a middle way
- False
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- False
- helps solve it
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- True
- False
- makes it worse
- step 2
- False
- apologising sincerely
- False
- True
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- focusing on the problem
- step 1
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- with an agreed plan
- help them calm down
- focusing on the problem
- listening without blame
- step 2
- listen to both sides
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- True
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