Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or cool off for a minute? (a) list possible fixes (b) cool off for a minute
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 7.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 15.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 18.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 32.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) the leader picks alone (d) scrap the project
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 34.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 38.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a fight (c) with a winner and loser (d) with an agreed plan
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- find options
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- step 2
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- False
- makes it worse
- True
- False
- find options
- using a calm voice
- brainstorm solutions
- taking sides at once
- shouting back
- listening without blame
- spreading gossip
- True
- helps solve it
- to understand fully
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- help them calm down
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- name-calling
- step 1
- makes it worse
- True
- take a deep breath
- step 4
- combine the best parts
- apologising sincerely
- False
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 1
- with an agreed plan
- brainstorm solutions
- spreading gossip
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