Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 2.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) apologising sincerely
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 8.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) ignore them (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 20.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 21.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 23.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 29.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
- 32.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or agree on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) agree on a plan
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) spreading gossip (c) saying “I feel…” (d) listening without blame
- 37.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 40.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
Answer key
- step 3
- True
- step 1
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- walking off in anger
- spreading gossip
- to understand fully
- helps solve it
- saying “I feel…”
- bringing up old fights
- help them calm down
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- listening without blame
- makes it worse
- take a deep breath
- listen to both sides
- listen to both sides
- name-calling
- True
- step 2
- True
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- shouting back
- step 4
- step 3
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- focusing on the problem
- let each person speak
- False
- helps solve it
- calm down
- let each person speak
- spreading gossip
- True
- True
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
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