Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) bringing up old fights (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 9.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or let each person speak? (a) take a deep breath (b) let each person speak
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 13.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or agree on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) agree on a plan
- 16.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with an agreed plan (c) with silence (d) with a winner and loser
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 24.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) name-calling
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or listen to both sides? (a) take a deep breath (b) listen to both sides
- 33.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 39.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to understand fully (c) to find who to blame (d) to pick a winner
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
Answer key
- step 2
- find options
- saying “I feel…”
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- True
- False
- finding a middle way
- False
- take a deep breath
- take a deep breath
- step 3
- combine the best parts
- focusing on the problem
- let each person speak
- with an agreed plan
- saying “I feel…”
- finding a middle way
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- taking sides at once
- False
- step 1
- focusing on the problem
- name-calling
- find options
- makes it worse
- take a deep breath
- True
- calm down
- helps solve it
- True
- listening without blame
- calm down
- to understand fully
- let each person speak
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