Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 2.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 8.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 15.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 17.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 18.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 20.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or find options? (a) hear each side fully (b) find options
- 25.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or hear each side fully? (a) take a deep breath (b) hear each side fully
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) listening without blame
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 31.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 32.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 37.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) ignore them (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 39.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
Answer key
- finding a middle way
- True
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- bringing up old fights
- apologising sincerely
- step 1
- False
- focusing on the problem
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- True
- step 2
- False
- focusing on the problem
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- bringing up old fights
- calm down
- name-calling
- hear each side fully
- listening without blame
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- walking off in anger
- step 1
- step 1
- to understand fully
- with an agreed plan
- list possible fixes
- find options
- helps solve it
- finding a middle way
- help them calm down
- taking sides at once
- combine the best parts
- hear each side fully
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