Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 3.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) spreading gossip (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) name-calling
- 8.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 11.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or choose a fix together? (a) take a deep breath (b) choose a fix together
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 15.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) agree on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 20.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 21.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 22.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) name-calling
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 32.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 39.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
Answer key
- step 4
- step 1
- True
- take a deep breath
- spreading gossip
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- True
- combine the best parts
- take a deep breath
- True
- take a deep breath
- step 1
- step 3
- with an agreed plan
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
- cool off for a minute
- calm down
- False
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- step 3
- find options
- makes it worse
- find options
- using a calm voice
- step 2
- apologising sincerely
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- True
- let each person speak
- step 4
- listen to both sides
- find options
- walking off in anger
- step 2
- False
- hear each side fully
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