Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 7.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 11.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 18.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 21.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) ignore them (d) take a vote at once
- 22.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 24.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 29.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 30.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or find options? (a) cool off for a minute (b) find options
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 37.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or choose a fix together? (a) take a deep breath (b) choose a fix together
- 40.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- helps solve it
- brainstorm solutions
- step 2
- hear each side fully
- helps solve it
- False
- True
- bringing up old fights
- step 1
- step 4
- with an agreed plan
- step 3
- focusing on the problem
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- step 1
- False
- step 2
- finding a middle way
- help them calm down
- True
- makes it worse
- finding a middle way
- hear each side fully
- step 1
- hear each side fully
- name-calling
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- walking off in anger
- list possible fixes
- cool off for a minute
- listening without blame
- step 4
- take a deep breath
- True
- step 3
- take a deep breath
- False
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