Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 4.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or choose a fix together? (a) calm down (b) choose a fix together
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 9.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 14.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 15.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) agree on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 23.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 24.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 30.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or agree on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) agree on a plan
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) bringing up old fights (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 39.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
Answer key
- walking off in anger
- finding a middle way
- let each person speak
- spreading gossip
- calm down
- helps solve it
- shouting back
- taking sides at once
- True
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- step 2
- False
- True
- take a deep breath
- listen to both sides
- step 1
- step 4
- name-calling
- name-calling
- calm down
- False
- False
- find options
- spreading gossip
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- walking off in anger
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- let each person speak
- saying “I feel…”
- find options
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- step 3
- bringing up old fights
- step 3
- to understand fully
- makes it worse
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