Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or cool off for a minute? (a) listen to both sides (b) cool off for a minute
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 7.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) ignore them (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 10.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) focusing on the problem
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 18.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 19.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 21.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 22.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or take a deep breath? (a) listen to both sides (b) take a deep breath
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or shake hands on a plan? (a) calm down (b) shake hands on a plan
- 27.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 30.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 32.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- let each person speak
- listening without blame
- saying “I feel…”
- shouting back
- help them calm down
- finding a middle way
- brainstorm solutions
- bringing up old fights
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- combine the best parts
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- walking off in anger
- with an agreed plan
- False
- helps solve it
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- take a deep breath
- list possible fixes
- let each person speak
- calm down
- True
- cool off for a minute
- calm down
- True
- False
- True
- listen to both sides
- helps solve it
- find options
- spreading gossip
- name-calling
- step 1
- makes it worse
- False
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