Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or let each person speak? (a) agree on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to understand fully
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or listen to both sides? (a) take a deep breath (b) listen to both sides
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 16.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with a fight
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 18.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) use the louder one’s (d) combine the best parts
- 19.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) apologising sincerely (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) name-calling
- 26.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 28.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 30.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or take a deep breath? (a) listen to both sides (b) take a deep breath
- 34.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or hear each side fully? (a) cool off for a minute (b) hear each side fully
- 37.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
Answer key
- makes it worse
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- step 4
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- calm down
- using a calm voice
- take a deep breath
- list possible fixes
- listen to both sides
- calm down
- step 1
- with an agreed plan
- step 2
- combine the best parts
- False
- cool off for a minute
- calm down
- apologising sincerely
- taking sides at once
- step 2
- apologising sincerely
- False
- find options
- True
- walking off in anger
- help them calm down
- step 3
- finding a middle way
- take a deep breath
- False
- name-calling
- cool off for a minute
- False
- listening without blame
- cool off for a minute
- bringing up old fights
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