Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 2.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 5.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 6.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 8.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 9.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 12.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or choose a fix together? (a) listen to both sides (b) choose a fix together
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or calm down? (a) choose a fix together (b) calm down
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 23.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or let each person speak? (a) take a deep breath (b) let each person speak
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 35.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 36.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) use the louder one’s (d) scrap the project
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 38.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 40.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) ignore them (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
Answer key
- using a calm voice
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- False
- False
- True
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- False
- saying “I feel…”
- name-calling
- spreading gossip
- focusing on the problem
- makes it worse
- spreading gossip
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- calm down
- listen to both sides
- listening without blame
- step 2
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- take a deep breath
- find options
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- cool off for a minute
- take a deep breath
- walking off in anger
- take a deep breath
- False
- combine the best parts
- step 4
- True
- False
- help them calm down
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