Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 4.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 5.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 8.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 9.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or brainstorm solutions? (a) take a deep breath (b) brainstorm solutions
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 16.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) walking off in anger (d) bringing up old fights
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 22.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 23.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 24.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 26.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a winner and loser (d) with silence
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 34.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) use the louder one’s (d) combine the best parts
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 36.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
Answer key
- True
- shouting back
- step 1
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- helps solve it
- step 2
- False
- help them calm down
- hear each side fully
- shouting back
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- True
- cool off for a minute
- step 3
- step 4
- using a calm voice
- listening without blame
- False
- True
- True
- let each person speak
- with an agreed plan
- step 4
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- find options
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- step 4
- combine the best parts
- focusing on the problem
- True
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- makes it worse
- find options
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