Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 7.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 8.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 17.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or hear each side fully? (a) cool off for a minute (b) hear each side fully
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 34.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) apologising sincerely
- 36.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 37.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
Answer key
- makes it worse
- step 2
- bringing up old fights
- focusing on the problem
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- apologising sincerely
- True
- shouting back
- step 1
- let each person speak
- shouting back
- step 2
- walking off in anger
- list possible fixes
- spreading gossip
- False
- step 4
- makes it worse
- calm down
- take a deep breath
- name-calling
- calm down
- cool off for a minute
- saying “I feel…”
- cool off for a minute
- listening without blame
- using a calm voice
- finding a middle way
- step 3
- helps solve it
- False
- True
- False
- name-calling
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- step 2
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