Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) listening without blame (d) spreading gossip
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 8.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 10.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 13.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with a winner and loser (d) with an agreed plan
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or let each person speak? (a) take a deep breath (b) let each person speak
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 19.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 24.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to pick a winner (c) to understand fully (d) to waste time
- 26.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 32.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 35.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) take a vote at once (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) bringing up old fights
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 39.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
Answer key
- helps solve it
- spreading gossip
- focusing on the problem
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- True
- take a deep breath
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- shouting back
- bringing up old fights
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- with an agreed plan
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- makes it worse
- step 2
- step 2
- True
- name-calling
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- False
- False
- to understand fully
- False
- find options
- calm down
- bringing up old fights
- let each person speak
- step 4
- combine the best parts
- step 3
- list possible fixes
- help them calm down
- take a deep breath
- saying “I feel…”
- listening without blame
- False
- find options
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