Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) use the louder one’s (d) combine the best parts
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 7.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 11.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 13.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 23.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 30.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 35.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) saying “I feel…” (d) listening without blame
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 38.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 40.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with silence
Answer key
- combine the best parts
- name-calling
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- True
- False
- taking sides at once
- step 1
- step 4
- False
- step 1
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- step 2
- spreading gossip
- walking off in anger
- hear each side fully
- brainstorm solutions
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- step 3
- step 2
- find options
- focusing on the problem
- to understand fully
- makes it worse
- step 1
- calm down
- find options
- True
- walking off in anger
- shouting back
- False
- help them calm down
- with an agreed plan
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