Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 5.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 13.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 15.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) bringing up old fights (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 16.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or brainstorm solutions? (a) take a deep breath (b) brainstorm solutions
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 19.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 22.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a winner and loser
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 25.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 27.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 29.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) use the louder one’s (d) combine the best parts
- 30.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or shake hands on a plan? (a) take a deep breath (b) shake hands on a plan
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or shake hands on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) name-calling (d) focusing on the problem
- 39.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- finding a middle way
- step 2
- name-calling
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- step 1
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- brainstorm solutions
- bringing up old fights
- to understand fully
- take a deep breath
- taking sides at once
- False
- bringing up old fights
- listening without blame
- with an agreed plan
- list possible fixes
- list possible fixes
- help them calm down
- apologising sincerely
- False
- step 3
- combine the best parts
- False
- step 4
- take a deep breath
- walking off in anger
- cool off for a minute
- step 1
- step 3
- hear each side fully
- focusing on the problem
- True
- False
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