Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 4.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 6.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 9.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) apologising sincerely
- 12.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or shake hands on a plan? (a) calm down (b) shake hands on a plan
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or choose a fix together? (a) hear each side fully (b) choose a fix together
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 24.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 30.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 37.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- helps solve it
- calm down
- let each person speak
- with an agreed plan
- shouting back
- False
- helps solve it
- step 1
- False
- helps solve it
- spreading gossip
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- calm down
- name-calling
- brainstorm solutions
- step 3
- hear each side fully
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- listen to both sides
- bringing up old fights
- listening without blame
- using a calm voice
- True
- step 2
- step 2
- helps solve it
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- saying “I feel…”
- step 4
- step 2
- find options
- makes it worse
- calm down
- False
- take a deep breath
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
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