Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
- 2.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to understand fully (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 3.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 12.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) apologising sincerely (d) name-calling
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 17.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 21.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 27.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 34.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or take a deep breath? (a) let each person speak (b) take a deep breath
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 37.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 38.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
Answer key
- let each person speak
- to understand fully
- False
- find options
- step 4
- step 3
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- listening without blame
- step 4
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- False
- False
- list possible fixes
- let each person speak
- True
- hear each side fully
- let each person speak
- step 1
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- True
- helps solve it
- saying “I feel…”
- spreading gossip
- list possible fixes
- listening without blame
- take a deep breath
- taking sides at once
- take a deep breath
- shouting back
- with an agreed plan
- True
- calm down
- let each person speak
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