Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 3.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or find options? (a) hear each side fully (b) find options
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 9.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) listening without blame
- 16.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 18.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) the leader picks alone (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 21.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 30.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 37.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
Answer key
- calm down
- step 3
- with an agreed plan
- step 4
- step 2
- find options
- hear each side fully
- calm down
- True
- finding a middle way
- helps solve it
- False
- bringing up old fights
- spreading gossip
- spreading gossip
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- combine the best parts
- listen to both sides
- using a calm voice
- False
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- apologising sincerely
- shouting back
- listen to both sides
- name-calling
- list possible fixes
- False
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- True
- focusing on the problem
- helps solve it
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- shouting back
- step 1
- makes it worse
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