Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
NameDateTime takenScore ___ / 40
- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 4.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) use the louder one’s (d) combine the best parts
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 8.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 9.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 10.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 13.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 16.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 17.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 20.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 22.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 24.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) name-calling (d) finding a middle way
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or choose a fix together? (a) let each person speak (b) choose a fix together
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 34.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) agree on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 39.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- step 1
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- combine the best parts
- step 2
- helps solve it
- step 4
- False
- to understand fully
- help them calm down
- walking off in anger
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- take a deep breath
- step 3
- with an agreed plan
- True
- listening without blame
- calm down
- True
- using a calm voice
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- shouting back
- name-calling
- apologising sincerely
- find options
- taking sides at once
- let each person speak
- step 4
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- False
- step 1
- helps solve it
- True
- listen to both sides
- True
- makes it worse
Free leadership lessons, practice and worksheets at talentjr.in/leadership-skills-for-students