Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 5.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 7.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 14.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or cool off for a minute? (a) hear each side fully (b) cool off for a minute
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 28.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) finding a middle way
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 39.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- step 2
- True
- taking sides at once
- True
- find options
- makes it worse
- step 2
- spreading gossip
- step 1
- listening without blame
- help them calm down
- let each person speak
- step 3
- step 4
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- cool off for a minute
- name-calling
- True
- makes it worse
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- apologising sincerely
- combine the best parts
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- walking off in anger
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- False
- name-calling
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- False
- step 2
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