Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 4.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 5.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 10.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 14.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or find options? (a) take a deep breath (b) find options
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 20.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 24.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 26.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) the leader picks alone (c) use the louder one’s (d) scrap the project
- 27.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) finding a middle way
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) listening without blame
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 31.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) apologising sincerely
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 37.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to pick a winner (c) to understand fully (d) to waste time
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
Answer key
- step 1
- helps solve it
- step 3
- True
- bringing up old fights
- calm down
- bringing up old fights
- step 1
- taking sides at once
- False
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- listening without blame
- True
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- shouting back
- finding a middle way
- True
- True
- spreading gossip
- find options
- walking off in anger
- hear each side fully
- combine the best parts
- True
- spreading gossip
- shouting back
- brainstorm solutions
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- name-calling
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- take a deep breath
- to understand fully
- find options
- step 2
- focusing on the problem
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