Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) agree on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 5.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 7.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) spreading gossip
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 17.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 20.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 22.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) taking sides at once
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 30.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 32.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 35.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 37.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- take a deep breath
- name-calling
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- walking off in anger
- bringing up old fights
- listening without blame
- finding a middle way
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- calm down
- finding a middle way
- step 1
- listen to both sides
- listen to both sides
- step 3
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- combine the best parts
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- taking sides at once
- False
- makes it worse
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- True
- step 2
- False
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- list possible fixes
- to understand fully
- cool off for a minute
- list possible fixes
- taking sides at once
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