Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 2.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 7.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 11.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 14.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 15.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or let each person speak? (a) take a deep breath (b) let each person speak
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 22.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 24.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) finding a middle way
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 35.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 36.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
Answer key
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- combine the best parts
- True
- step 2
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- help them calm down
- step 3
- focusing on the problem
- to understand fully
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- listening without blame
- let each person speak
- spreading gossip
- focusing on the problem
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- False
- True
- False
- shouting back
- finding a middle way
- step 2
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- saying “I feel…”
- taking sides at once
- name-calling
- take a deep breath
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- False
- False
- apologising sincerely
- bringing up old fights
- calm down
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