Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or choose a fix together? (a) take a deep breath (b) choose a fix together
- 3.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 5.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 7.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) bringing up old fights
- 9.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) ignore them (c) pick a winner fast (d) help them calm down
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 21.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 22.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 25.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) spreading gossip
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 31.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) focusing on the problem
- 34.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to find who to blame
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 36.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
Answer key
- list possible fixes
- take a deep breath
- combine the best parts
- bringing up old fights
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 2
- False
- focusing on the problem
- True
- spreading gossip
- taking sides at once
- help them calm down
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- listening without blame
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- False
- False
- calm down
- step 3
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- True
- spreading gossip
- shouting back
- to understand fully
- using a calm voice
- True
- brainstorm solutions
- False
- cool off for a minute
- step 3
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