Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 4.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 12.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 16.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 22.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 23.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 24.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) bringing up old fights
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 30.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or list possible fixes? (a) hear each side fully (b) list possible fixes
- 38.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a fight
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 40.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
Answer key
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- False
- list possible fixes
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- using a calm voice
- makes it worse
- combine the best parts
- False
- apologising sincerely
- brainstorm solutions
- focusing on the problem
- False
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- step 1
- to understand fully
- False
- focusing on the problem
- listening without blame
- step 1
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- step 3
- False
- True
- step 4
- let each person speak
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
- step 2
- hear each side fully
- with an agreed plan
- name-calling
- using a calm voice
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