Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 3.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with an agreed plan (c) with silence (d) with a winner and loser
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 8.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to understand fully (c) to find who to blame (d) to pick a winner
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 13.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or calm down? (a) let each person speak (b) calm down
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 17.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 26.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or shake hands on a plan? (a) calm down (b) shake hands on a plan
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) walking off in anger (c) saying “I feel…” (d) focusing on the problem
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 33.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) take a vote at once (c) ignore them (d) help them calm down
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) apologising sincerely
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 38.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
Answer key
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- with an agreed plan
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- makes it worse
- False
- to understand fully
- find options
- step 2
- name-calling
- step 1
- False
- step 2
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- helps solve it
- True
- cool off for a minute
- taking sides at once
- spreading gossip
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 4
- False
- calm down
- calm down
- helps solve it
- name-calling
- walking off in anger
- finding a middle way
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- calm down
- apologising sincerely
- helps solve it
- True
- find options
- calm down
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