Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 5.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 7.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 8.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) pick a winner fast (c) ignore them (d) help them calm down
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or brainstorm solutions? (a) choose a fix together (b) brainstorm solutions
- 10.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 20.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) scrap the project (d) use the louder one’s
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) spreading gossip
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) shouting back
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 36.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 40.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- focusing on the problem
- step 2
- using a calm voice
- step 1
- walking off in anger
- False
- with an agreed plan
- help them calm down
- brainstorm solutions
- False
- bringing up old fights
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- step 3
- step 1
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- spreading gossip
- find options
- False
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- True
- taking sides at once
- apologising sincerely
- spreading gossip
- shouting back
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- True
- helps solve it
- step 1
- finding a middle way
- True
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