Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 6.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 9.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) listening without blame
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) name-calling
- 16.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) walking off in anger (d) listening without blame
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 22.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or choose a fix together? (a) hear each side fully (b) choose a fix together
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) apologising sincerely
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) bringing up old fights
- 31.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 36.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or take a deep breath? (a) let each person speak (b) take a deep breath
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- makes it worse
- step 3
- list possible fixes
- listening without blame
- let each person speak
- True
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- listening without blame
- False
- walking off in anger
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- listen to both sides
- True
- hear each side fully
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- helps solve it
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- calm down
- False
- list possible fixes
- take a deep breath
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
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