Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or choose a fix together? (a) cool off for a minute (b) choose a fix together
- 5.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) combine the best parts (c) use the louder one’s (d) the leader picks alone
- 10.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with a winner and loser
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 13.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 14.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 25.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 27.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 30.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 32.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
- 34.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 37.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to understand fully
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or brainstorm solutions? (a) hear each side fully (b) brainstorm solutions
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
Answer key
- step 4
- list possible fixes
- walking off in anger
- cool off for a minute
- True
- step 1
- step 2
- apologising sincerely
- combine the best parts
- with an agreed plan
- bringing up old fights
- listen to both sides
- False
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- step 3
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- focusing on the problem
- step 2
- calm down
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- step 3
- False
- helps solve it
- False
- step 1
- find options
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- list possible fixes
- False
- let each person speak
- True
- makes it worse
- calm down
- to understand fully
- hear each side fully
- makes it worse
- cool off for a minute
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