Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 4.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) bringing up old fights (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) taking sides at once
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) focusing on the problem
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 24.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 26.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or calm down? (a) let each person speak (b) calm down
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) shouting back
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 39.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 40.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- listen to both sides
- listening without blame
- focusing on the problem
- False
- step 1
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- bringing up old fights
- step 1
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- step 4
- step 3
- shouting back
- find options
- brainstorm solutions
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- spreading gossip
- apologising sincerely
- True
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- find options
- calm down
- spreading gossip
- apologising sincerely
- using a calm voice
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- taking sides at once
- name-calling
- calm down
- False
- False
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