Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) apologising sincerely (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 5.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 6.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or brainstorm solutions? (a) hear each side fully (b) brainstorm solutions
- 12.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 15.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) shouting back
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 20.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 26.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 28.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 38.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 40.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
Answer key
- helps solve it
- apologising sincerely
- listening without blame
- listen to both sides
- to understand fully
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- find options
- combine the best parts
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- False
- walking off in anger
- step 1
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- using a calm voice
- False
- cool off for a minute
- listen to both sides
- step 4
- helps solve it
- step 1
- False
- find options
- False
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- name-calling
- finding a middle way
- True
- hear each side fully
- using a calm voice
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