Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 7.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with an agreed plan (c) with silence (d) with a fight
- 8.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 10.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) agree on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 15.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to understand fully (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 16.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) using a calm voice
- 21.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 23.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 24.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 29.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or calm down? (a) let each person speak (b) calm down
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or agree on a plan? (a) take a deep breath (b) agree on a plan
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or brainstorm solutions? (a) cool off for a minute (b) brainstorm solutions
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
Answer key
- step 1
- saying “I feel…”
- step 3
- helps solve it
- step 1
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
- True
- False
- False
- name-calling
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- using a calm voice
- to understand fully
- help them calm down
- list possible fixes
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- taking sides at once
- taking sides at once
- True
- combine the best parts
- True
- False
- spreading gossip
- focusing on the problem
- take a deep breath
- brainstorm solutions
- False
- step 2
- calm down
- finding a middle way
- apologising sincerely
- helps solve it
- walking off in anger
- take a deep breath
- cool off for a minute
- using a calm voice
- makes it worse
- step 1
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