Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) spreading gossip
- 2.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 4.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 5.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) using a calm voice
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 15.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) name-calling (b) focusing on the problem (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 16.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) taking sides at once (c) name-calling (d) shouting back
- 17.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 23.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) take a vote at once (c) help them calm down (d) pick a winner fast
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 30.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 34.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 35.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or shake hands on a plan? (a) calm down (b) shake hands on a plan
Answer key
- spreading gossip
- to understand fully
- step 3
- False
- True
- taking sides at once
- step 2
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- step 3
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- name-calling
- using a calm voice
- walking off in anger
- list possible fixes
- step 2
- taking sides at once
- list possible fixes
- listen to both sides
- True
- help them calm down
- calm down
- step 4
- using a calm voice
- cool off for a minute
- listening without blame
- finding a middle way
- brainstorm solutions
- calm down
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- with an agreed plan
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- step 4
- calm down
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