Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or take a deep breath? (a) let each person speak (b) take a deep breath
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or brainstorm solutions? (a) choose a fix together (b) brainstorm solutions
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 7.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) help them calm down (c) ignore them (d) pick a winner fast
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or agree on a plan? (a) calm down (b) agree on a plan
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 15.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 16.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) shouting back
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 27.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a fight
- 34.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 38.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
Answer key
- makes it worse
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- brainstorm solutions
- list possible fixes
- listening without blame
- False
- apologising sincerely
- name-calling
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- help them calm down
- calm down
- taking sides at once
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- bringing up old fights
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- False
- calm down
- shouting back
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- shouting back
- step 3
- True
- saying “I feel…”
- step 4
- step 1
- find options
- makes it worse
- with an agreed plan
- False
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- step 2
- False
- step 4
- listen to both sides
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