Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or agree on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) agree on a plan
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 5.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with silence (c) with a winner and loser (d) with a fight
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or cool off for a minute? (a) list possible fixes (b) cool off for a minute
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 15.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 16.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or brainstorm solutions? (a) choose a fix together (b) brainstorm solutions
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or list possible fixes? (a) take a deep breath (b) list possible fixes
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 27.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 29.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) focusing on the problem (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 31.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
- 34.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 39.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) combine the best parts (c) the leader picks alone (d) use the louder one’s
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- bringing up old fights
- step 2
- listen to both sides
- cool off for a minute
- with an agreed plan
- apologising sincerely
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- helps solve it
- spreading gossip
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- makes it worse
- True
- to understand fully
- True
- makes it worse
- brainstorm solutions
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- step 4
- walking off in anger
- listen to both sides
- False
- taking sides at once
- True
- name-calling
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 2
- using a calm voice
- False
- helps solve it
- find options
- hear each side fully
- step 3
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
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