Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) finding a middle way
- 2.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) listening without blame
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 7.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 12.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 16.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or list possible fixes? (a) hear each side fully (b) list possible fixes
- 17.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 21.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or brainstorm solutions? (a) choose a fix together (b) brainstorm solutions
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) walking off in anger
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 28.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with silence (c) with a winner and loser (d) with a fight
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 31.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) focusing on the problem
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 36.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) walking off in anger (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) focusing on the problem
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
Answer key
- finding a middle way
- False
- step 4
- shouting back
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- combine the best parts
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- False
- step 3
- find options
- brainstorm solutions
- hear each side fully
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- spreading gossip
- step 2
- brainstorm solutions
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- walking off in anger
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- name-calling
- bringing up old fights
- False
- step 4
- calm down
- name-calling
- taking sides at once
- False
- find options
- walking off in anger
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
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