Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or cool off for a minute? (a) hear each side fully (b) cool off for a minute
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) ignore them (c) take a vote at once (d) pick a winner fast
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) name-calling
- 16.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 17.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 18.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or agree on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) agree on a plan
- 20.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or cool off for a minute? (a) listen to both sides (b) cool off for a minute
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 34.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- step 3
- step 1
- helps solve it
- False
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- True
- let each person speak
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- cool off for a minute
- help them calm down
- step 4
- shouting back
- focusing on the problem
- using a calm voice
- False
- True
- let each person speak
- False
- calm down
- makes it worse
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- apologising sincerely
- False
- step 3
- bringing up old fights
- cool off for a minute
- using a calm voice
- list possible fixes
- find options
- True
- listening without blame
- brainstorm solutions
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- brainstorm solutions
- helps solve it
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