Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 3.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to understand fully (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 4.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) focusing on the problem
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 9.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 10.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with a winner and loser (d) with an agreed plan
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 13.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) ignore them (c) help them calm down (d) pick a winner fast
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 20.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) focusing on the problem
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 28.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 29.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 31.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 33.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 40.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- step 4
- step 1
- to understand fully
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- let each person speak
- listening without blame
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- with an agreed plan
- saying “I feel…”
- step 2
- help them calm down
- makes it worse
- find options
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- focusing on the problem
- bringing up old fights
- False
- name-calling
- step 2
- let each person speak
- brainstorm solutions
- list possible fixes
- listening without blame
- step 1
- True
- True
- list possible fixes
- False
- spreading gossip
- False
- step 3
- walking off in anger
- helps solve it
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- False
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