Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 7.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 10.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 11.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 12.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 16.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 17.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 18.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 21.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or take a deep breath? (a) list possible fixes (b) take a deep breath
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 26.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 29.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 30.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- step 4
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- helps solve it
- finding a middle way
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- step 3
- listening without blame
- name-calling
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- to understand fully
- helps solve it
- shouting back
- step 2
- False
- help them calm down
- focusing on the problem
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- False
- helps solve it
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- step 1
- False
- combine the best parts
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
- True
- bringing up old fights
- step 4
- step 3
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- False
- step 3
- step 1
- using a calm voice
- walking off in anger
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