Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 5.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) saying “I feel…”
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 13.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) saying “I feel…” (d) listening without blame
- 15.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 17.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 20.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or choose a fix together? (a) calm down (b) choose a fix together
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or listen to both sides? (a) take a deep breath (b) listen to both sides
- 23.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 24.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 27.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or choose a fix together? (a) take a deep breath (b) choose a fix together
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or find options? (a) calm down (b) find options
- 34.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or shake hands on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 39.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
Answer key
- find options
- makes it worse
- step 2
- list possible fixes
- True
- list possible fixes
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- find options
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- step 3
- False
- walking off in anger
- False
- step 1
- False
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- bringing up old fights
- to understand fully
- calm down
- take a deep breath
- using a calm voice
- spreading gossip
- step 2
- step 4
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- take a deep breath
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- calm down
- False
- step 2
- makes it worse
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- combine the best parts
- step 3
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