Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 4.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 14.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 18.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to understand fully
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) agree on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 33.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 34.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 36.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 40.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
Answer key
- step 4
- find options
- step 2
- False
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- brainstorm solutions
- makes it worse
- True
- makes it worse
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- brainstorm solutions
- saying “I feel…”
- name-calling
- using a calm voice
- saying “I feel…”
- to understand fully
- shouting back
- step 3
- listen to both sides
- find options
- bringing up old fights
- listen to both sides
- step 4
- step 4
- take a deep breath
- helps solve it
- False
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- combine the best parts
- apologising sincerely
- False
- step 1
- False
- step 2
- listening without blame
- makes it worse
- finding a middle way
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