Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 2.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) ignore them
- 3.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 7.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to understand fully
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 9.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 10.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or agree on a plan? (a) calm down (b) agree on a plan
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) spreading gossip
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 18.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) bringing up old fights (c) walking off in anger (d) focusing on the problem
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 23.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 33.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 39.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 40.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- step 4
- help them calm down
- walking off in anger
- listening without blame
- makes it worse
- step 1
- to understand fully
- saying “I feel…”
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- finding a middle way
- helps solve it
- calm down
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- focusing on the problem
- step 2
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- bringing up old fights
- find options
- makes it worse
- spreading gossip
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- cool off for a minute
- shouting back
- True
- list possible fixes
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- let each person speak
- finding a middle way
- False
- True
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