Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or hear each side fully? (a) take a deep breath (b) hear each side fully
- 3.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) ignore them (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 5.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 8.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 11.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) name-calling
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or choose a fix together? (a) let each person speak (b) choose a fix together
- 16.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 21.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) combine the best parts (c) the leader picks alone (d) scrap the project
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 28.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 33.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- saying “I feel…”
- take a deep breath
- help them calm down
- listening without blame
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- True
- False
- listen to both sides
- True
- using a calm voice
- step 4
- apologising sincerely
- let each person speak
- taking sides at once
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- calm down
- focusing on the problem
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- step 3
- step 3
- shouting back
- saying “I feel…”
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- cool off for a minute
- step 2
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- step 1
- name-calling
- spreading gossip
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