Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 4.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 11.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or agree on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) agree on a plan
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) bringing up old fights (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 14.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 17.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 24.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 25.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to waste time (d) to find who to blame
- 26.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 28.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or take a deep breath? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) take a deep breath
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) shouting back
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 34.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) walking off in anger (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 35.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- step 3
- makes it worse
- step 3
- listen to both sides
- False
- cool off for a minute
- bringing up old fights
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- name-calling
- step 4
- bringing up old fights
- name-calling
- helps solve it
- brainstorm solutions
- finding a middle way
- listening without blame
- step 1
- False
- to understand fully
- using a calm voice
- list possible fixes
- False
- helps solve it
- take a deep breath
- brainstorm solutions
- finding a middle way
- shouting back
- walking off in anger
- False
- let each person speak
- step 1
- focusing on the problem
- step 4
- shouting back
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